V\u00e2n Trang trong “Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u00e0y n\u1eafng v\u1ec1” c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n B\u00f9i Ti\u1ebfn Huy v\u00e0 V\u0169 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Khoa s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1eb9 ru\u1ed9t b\u1edfi c\u00f4 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh v\u00ec sao b\u1ecf r\u01a1i con, v\u00ec sao kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, v\u00ec sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng quay l\u1ea1i ng\u00f4i ch\u1ee3 n\u01a1i m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u1ee9ng ch\u1edd… N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u con th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 con hay \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec con \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a g\u00ec, c\u1ee9 n\u00e9n m\u1ecdi oan \u1ee9c, \u0111au bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh qua m\u1ed9t b\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m n\u00e9n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ch\u1eb7t, ch\u1edd ng\u00e0y b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ef1c k\u00ec nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh \u0111au m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a tha th\u1ee9. V\u00e2n V\u00e2n \u1edf \u00ab\u00a0Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u00e0y n\u1eafng v\u1ec1\u00a0\u00bb x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh khi c\u01a1n m\u01b0a t\u1edbi, khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecfi v\u1ebd m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u00e0u g\u00ec b\u1edfi v\u00ec d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng cha b\u1ecb tai n\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i cha \u0111i mua m\u00e0u ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. V\u00e2n V\u00e2n s\u1ebd m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi cha \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y ra \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi hi v\u1ecdng, mong mu\u1ed1n, ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 g\u00e2y n\u1ed7i \u0111au cho m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i, ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu \u0111au v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh \u0111au l\u00f2ng n\u00f3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u00fd (l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh \u0111au), khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111ang \u0111au. Ch\u1ecb ch\u1eedi em v\u00f4 l\u00ed tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng ngay gi\u1eefa ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a tang ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u00ab\u00a0tao kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb\u00bb v\u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0tao kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh \u0111au v\u1edbi t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t cho m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi day d\u1ee9t v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra v\u00ec c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn. Nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u00f2n l\u1eadt l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00fang b\u1edfi h\u1ecd tin v\u00e0o l\u00ed l\u1ebd c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u1ef1c k\u00ec m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Nh\u01b0ng sau cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu\u00f4i ngoai \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho cha m\u1eb9 nghe r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o c\u00e2y roi, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nhi\u1ebfc m\u00f3c l\u00e0m con \u0111au th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u00f3 khi kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Cha m\u1eb9 sau cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u00e0 b\u1edbt ph\u1ea7n v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Ch\u1ecb \u1edf trong nh\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea5u, m\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng s\u1eafp, \u00e1o kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eb7t, nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn, s\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng lau\u2026 m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a em ch\u1ecb n\u00f3 ghen v\u1edbi nhau m\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u00a0?\u00a0\u00bb\u2026 Sau c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng bao nhi\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n do hai b\u00ean hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n cho ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang m\u1edf l\u00f2ng ra \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u b\u00ean kia. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 sau \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a (t\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn). Tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i n\u00e0o n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111au h\u1ecd g\u00e2y ra. V\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. T\u1ef1 h\u1ecd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f2n ta s\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 b\u1ecf b\u1edbt m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n
Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y trong “Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i – v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua di ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n” c\u1ee7a Susan Forward v\u00e0 Craig Buck. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 V\u00e2n V\u00e2n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i g\u00e2y ra c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a cha v\u00ec cha \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t. C\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y ra \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng minh cho c\u00f4 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a cha kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do c\u00f4. D\u00f9 c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i mua m\u00e0u ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u1eabn b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ng\u00e0n c\u00e2n treo s\u1ee3i t\u00f3c m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ra \u0111i… Ch\u1ee9ng minh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cho V\u00e2n V\u00e2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 t\u1ea1 t\u1ed9i v\u1edbi cha. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa cho c\u00f4 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i x\u00f3a s\u1ea1ch r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng tr\u1eafng \u00e1n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V\u00e2n Trang trong “Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u00e0y n\u1eafng v\u1ec1” c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n B\u00f9i Ti\u1ebfn Huy v\u00e0 V\u0169 Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Khoa s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1eb9 ru\u1ed9t b\u1edfi c\u00f4 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh v\u00ec sao b\u1ecf r\u01a1i con, v\u00ec sao kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, v\u00ec sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng quay l\u1ea1i ng\u00f4i ch\u1ee3 n\u01a1i m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 con […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4730,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4,13],"tags":[134,133,132],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4729"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4729"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4729\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4731,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4729\/revisions\/4731"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4730"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4729"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4729"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi221\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4729"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}