{"id":3894,"date":"2021-05-09T20:18:55","date_gmt":"2021-05-09T13:18:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/?p=3894"},"modified":"2021-09-26T05:06:10","modified_gmt":"2021-09-25T22:06:10","slug":"co-don-khi-song-o-nuoc-ngoai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/vi\/blog\/co-don-khi-song-o-nuoc-ngoai.html","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi s\u1ed1ng \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"hh_cite_i\">Khi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m con g\u00e1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u0111\u00e3 khoe v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u00e2y c\u0103n nh\u00e0 cho con trai trong v\u01b0\u1eddn nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. Nh\u00e0 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e0 b\u00ean \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng con g\u00e1i \u00f4ng b\u00e0 b\u00ean n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 \u1edf mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed. Ch\u1ec9 nghe \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 cho\u1ea3ng ngay &#8220;M\u00e0y n\u00f3i tao ngu \u00e0 ! &#8221; r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf \u0111i. Gi\u1eadn!<\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"hh_cite_i\">C\u00f4 g\u00e1i im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ea3 chi\u1ec1u h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i c\u00f4 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi cha m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 d\u1eb7n cha ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9. &#8220;M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 suy di\u1ec5n v\u00f4 l\u00ed. Con ch\u1ec9 k\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e0 b\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u1edf xa cha m\u1eb9. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n con \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nh\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng cay nghi\u1ec7t, kh\u1eaft khe, x\u1ea5u xa \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, tr\u00e1nh cho m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ghen nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng? Hay l\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu con c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 anh ch\u1ecb em trong nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ghen t\u1ecb, tranh gi\u00e0nh l\u1eabn nhau?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>B\u1ecf \u0111i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh. N\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u00eda sau. N\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1edd cho c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn qua l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i lu\u00f4n th\u00ec l\u00e0 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f4 g\u00e1i kia s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng\u00a0 hay \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u ch\u00ea \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea3y d\u1ef1ng l\u00ean th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ecf qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 va ch\u1ea1m, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn nh\u1ecf m\u1edbi n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen. R\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t, ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m y\u00eau th\u00edch, b\u1ecf thu nh\u1eadp \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, r\u1eddi xa gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3. Giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quen gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n, kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdng nam khinh n\u1eef, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n con tr\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eabu h\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t. C\u00f4 c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. N\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n xa nh\u00e0, nh\u1edb t\u1eebng ti\u1ebfng rao h\u00e0ng bu\u1ed1i s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm v\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00eam, v\u0103ng v\u1eb3ng b\u00ean tai \u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00e8o v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i l\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng gian trong s\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ea7y n\u1eafng, ph\u1ea3ng ph\u1ea5t m\u00f9i c\u00e2y c\u1ecf tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng v\u1eafng nh\u01b0 ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 \u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb d\u00f9 ai c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi c\u00f4 c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, ph\u00eda sau v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm b\u00ecnh an cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0 tui, Minh H\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt ng\u00e0y 10\/5\/2021.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i khi con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi s\u1ed1ng \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3895,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[76,92],"tags":[90,91],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3894"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3894"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4684,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3894\/revisions\/4684"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3895"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2020.envisafety.com\/vi201\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}