T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1eb7t x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nhau ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea3i khen b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, \u0111\u1eb9p l\u1eafm. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u00fd m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n… \u00edch k\u1ec9 b\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng keo ki\u1ec7t c\u00f2n kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh T\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng. Cho n\u00ean khi y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi. Ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00f4i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, v\u1ec1 \u1edf chung s\u1ebd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00e3 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m li d\u1ecb th\u00ec c\u00e0ng h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc h\u1ecd tuy\u1ec3n m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tin m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
Tham gia m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tranh lu\u1eadn c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh sai ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00ed lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1eafc b\u00e9n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh thi\u00ean t\u00e0i hay v\u0129 nh\u00e2n theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
“Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c ta.” [1]<\/p>\n